One’s definition of love changes as we experience heartbreak and bliss; we, ourselves, change. The versions of ourselves before and after something as detrimental as a break up or loss are far removed from one another that you’re a completely new person post storm. You’re the same, but you aren’t at the same time. And you may never be, for better or for worse.
ILY’s ongoing video series Versions Of explores the versions of a person before and after heartbreak. Episode 3 features writer Foster Kamer sharing the story behind a confounding breakup that brought him to a point of self-evaluation.
Directed by Jessica Rovniak. Edited by Deirdre Hynes. Produced by Erika Ramirez.