Dating Is Easy (Advice Column)

Welcome to our weekly advice column, Dating Is Easy, covering all things love and dating. Dating Is Easy is spearheaded by Beca Grimm. If you’d like to submit a question, email her at or tweet your question to @becagrimm with the hashtag #askily. 41:  Does He Really Want To Date Me? | 12.29.17 A…


She’s Me (Vignettes)

Illustration by Mayya Agapova.

Words by Erykah Horan. Illustration by Mayya Agapova.


Shade (Essay)

Photography by Ben Bonsu.

Words by Minzi Robert. Feature photo by Ben Bonsu.


Saba Abraha – ‘You Are Not My Friend’ (Video Premiere)

Photo by Jabari Jacobs.

Words by Erika Ramirez. We’ve all been there; We’re at a party, and we feel out of place. We’re with someone, but it doesn’t feel right. But, what happens when even after you leave, the feeling doesn’t? In her new music video for “You Are Not My Friend,” directed by Nico Castro and shot and…